I went out with 98 men in nine months - and none of them led to love': Woman's social experiment aims to prove dating is 'unnatural
Experiment: Writer Susan Winter (pictured) went on 98 dates in nine months to prove that meeting people organically is much better than intentionally A woman has made it her mission to prove that formally dating is 'tedious', 'unnatural' and unnecessary. Relationship expert Susan Winter, who is in her 50s, wrote on the Huffington Post that she has no problems with meeting men organically, but that the concept of the dating world does not appeal to her. To hit back at critics who accused her of 'never having "officially dated,"' the Manhattan-based writer agreed to go out with any man who asked her out - which resulted in 98 dates in nine months. Rather than changing her mind, the social experiment merely reinforced her views that dating is just 'the required presentational stage for a possible future interlude'. 'Dating in today's world is more akin to an extreme sport,' she offered, slamming it as a chance for both parties to superficially parade their talents and possessions. 'High-heeled women flaunt the sex card as they savagely stampede each other for a man's attention,' she wrote.
Ms Winter emphasizes that she uses 'dating' in the traditional sense of the word, otherwise known as courtship, meaning she did not sleep with all 98 men. Some of the dates were blind ones recommended by friends and colleagues, other men she met via personal ads, and she even met some through a professional matchmaker. And yet time and time again, despite the variety of dates, she found the experience to be 'tedious'. 'Men parade their toys while women serve as the cows, pigs and horses parading for our Blue Ribbon of acceptance,' she wrote.
Source: dailymail.co.uk
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